Porträt von Thuy Nguyen. Sie steht vor einem braunen Hintergrund, trägt ein schwarzes Jackett und lächelt in die Kamera.

“Education Is the Foundation for Everything”

Thuy Nguyen comes from Hanoi, Vietnam, and already had a teenage son when she decided to leave her job and pursue her dream of studying in Germany. Two years ago, the now 43-year-old moved to Mannheim with her son. She is currently in her fourth semester of the Mannheim Master in Management program. In her myUniMA story, she shares how she balances motherhood and studying and reflects on the advantages and disadvantages of being older than most of her fellow students.

Tell us a little bit about yourself:  Where are you from and what did you do before starting your degree program?

I was born and raised in Vietnam. Before coming to Germany, I had a long career in marketing:  I studied marketing and began at the bottom, like any other graduate. Over time, I reached a C-level position in a fairly large corporation in Vietnam. I worked across various industries for almost 20 years. My career was successful, but eventually I wanted to take a break, review my CV, and prepare for the next 20 years of my professional life.

Why did you decide to quit your job and return to university?

For me, it wasn’t just about returning to university, studying abroad had always been my dream. However, when I was younger, financial and other circumstances prevented me from pursuing it. Another reason was that I wanted to broaden my horizons and have a new life experience. As both a mother and a daughter, I always carried responsibilities. After more than 15 years of working, I felt it was time for a change because I had somewhat stopped growing professionally. I finally wanted to realize my dream. I knew that if I didn’t do it then, I would regret it for the rest of my life. I also wanted to challenge myself, I am someone who is open to new experiences. 

Why did you choose the University of Mannheim?

It was a long process. I knew from the beginning that I wanted to go to Europe. I had traveled here many times and wanted to experience daily life. I soon realized that Germany was the right choice for me because I appreciate the structure and discipline here. Another important factor was that education in Germany truly focuses on learning, and not on business, as is sometimes the case in the UK and other English-speaking countries.  The cost of living is also more affordable compared to other European countries. When I started considering Germany, I looked for the right university and found the University of Mannheim: a top choice for Economics and Business Administration. I also saw it as a challenge: getting admitted to Mannheim is not easy, and I had to work hard for it. 

You have an 18-year-old son. How do you balance being a mother and studying? Do you also have time and energy for student life outside of classes?

It’s all about priorities. My son comes first. I took him out of his comfort zone by bringing him here, so I need to make sure that both of us settle in. Fortunately, my program at the University of Mannheim is very flexible. In my first semester, I only took three courses, so I wasn’t overwhelmed. I try to study during the day and spend evenings with my son—talking, checking in, and being there for him. I also set some rules for myself: for example, I try to avoid weekend meetings for group work so I can spend time with him.

As for student life: Luckily, there are many activities I can join. I don’t have to miss out. There are plenty of programs and workshops, and I enjoy meeting friends, not every day, but from time to time.  I can experience student life at my own pace.

What do you like most about your program of study?

I know the subject suits my strengths, but it’s still a big challenge and I actually enjoy that. I’ve questioned myself many times and even thought about giving up. I knew studying in Germany would be demanding, but I didn’t expect it to be this hard. Yet, I’m a bit addicted to challenges. The feeling you get after finishing a long group presentation or exam—going outside, breathing fresh air, and thinking, “Another one done”—is wonderful. I also really appreciate the variety of courses. You can tailor your studies to your interests. That motivates me. I can take courses not only in marketing but also in areas like business administration or information systems. The quality of classes and professors is excellent.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of being older than your fellow students?

First of all, I have to say that the younger students are incredibly capable. Sometimes I feel a bit pressured—they are like 20 years younger and so talented in many areas. They have strong critical thinking skills, and they are well-educated in art, music, and film. That inspires me. Of course, being older also has advantages. I think the biggest one is experience. My many years of professional work give me a broader perspective. I know how to handle stressful situations and am used to multitasking. But experience can also be a challenge: sometimes my thinking follows familiar patterns. For example, during group discussions, I have to hold back to avoid being biased by my past professional habits. But I don’t see this as a disadvantage, just another challenge to overcome. Otherwise, I don’t see many downsides.

Do you have any tips for people who have been working for a long time or are parents and are considering returning to university?

The first question to ask yourself is what you truly want. It’s about deciding how you want to live your life. I know many people would like to go back to university but feel constrained by their circumstances.  But I firmly believe that education is the foundation for everything. I always encourage people to keep learning.  It doesn’t have to mean going to university—you should simply keep expanding your knowledge. You have nothing to lose.  You’re not giving everything up by dedicating two years to studying. I believe the effort is worth it, and it pays off. And if you ever feel stuck, there is always help available: family and friends, the Studierendenwerk, or the psychological counseling center.

What are your goals after completing your degree? 

I really want to speak German fluently.  Right now, I only speak a little German. It may never be as good as my English, but I want to become more confident because I hope to work in Germany for a while. I like living here and look forward to working in the marketing industry again. I’m also excited to combine my professional experience with what I’ve learned especially in AI. I’ve taken many AI-related courses and am eager to integrate all of it as I begin the next 20 years of my career. And, of course, I hope that my son and I will continue to settle in well and put down roots here.

Interview: Tamara Gminsky / December 2025